Tuesday, March 07, 2006
Adoption Picnic and Other Stuff

We attended the spring picnic of the adoption agency we are planning to use last Saturday. Overall, it wasn't as "exciting" as our previous picnic in Oct 05, mostly because back then I was relatively uneducated about the process and green to the obstacles. Every story was new to me & fascinating. This time, I pretty much knew what to expect and knew alot of the "helpful hints". So I am feeling pretty confident now that we are thoroughly prepared to start the process.

One couple started the process last July, finished their paperwork in November, had their referral within the month, and in December went to Russia for Trips 1 and 2 (only a week between visits). Can you believe how fast that was? Michael and I both realized that we could potentially be the parents of two children by this time next year, all going well. Scary, but exciting at the same time.

This week has been crazy at work. I am taking off Thurs-Fri and next Mon to go to Chicago to visit one of my best friends from college who just had her second baby. I am also going to my grandfather's house, and will see my cousins and possibly my aunt (she just broke her ankle and may not be able to go). It will be a great trip to see the new baby Clara. We have a girls night out planned for Friday. But also a bit sad because this will be the first time going to my grandparents without my grandmother there. She passed away from pancreatic cancer in December just three months after diagnosis. Michael and I stayed in Chicago over Thanksgiving and spent the final days with her in the hospice. It's amazing how cancer can shut down the body. I bring this up because I can't believe that Dana Reeve passed away - after years of taking care of her husband, and then to be diagnosed with lung cancer at 44. They have a 13 year old son, and I can not even imagine what he is going through right now.

Photo of Grandma/Grandpa, Michael and I, my brother & sister + cousins last April at our engagement party at Grandma's.
4 Comments:
Blogger Jennefer said...
It sounds like you are really getting ready to start the adoption process. I hope it all goes quickly for you.

Have a nice to trip to Chicago. Where in Chicago? We used to live there (Western Suburbs-Oak Brook, next to McDonalds headquarters).

Blogger CarolinaGirl said...
Hey Tricia!. IT IS HONEY'S!! I don't know what I am talking about calling it a coffee shop. That was my favorite place in the world!. I went there almost every morning. Especially on the weekends, and then I would drive down and walk to watch the surfers surf while I ate my breakfast. What a small world.

Please let me know about the ultrasound. I am praying for you!

Strange thing that you mentioned Dana Reeve in your post today. I am sorry about your grandmother. Cancer has hit our family hard. It is amazing how it rips through a person without warning. I cannot imagine what the Reeve's son is coping right now. Man...it blows my mind. Hey...have a great trip in Chicago!! Great place!. I will be in Russia when you get back. I will be posting on my blog while I am gone. I will be back in touch with all of my blogging friends when I get back!. Take care of yourself!!

Blogger Rhonda said...
Love the pic Tricia.

When I read the news about Dana Reeve, I just shook my head and thought to myself how short and precious life really is. Its incredible to me that she passed away so quickly. I bet their son turns out to be an amazing person. He's been through a lot, but I bet he pulls through. I saw him on Oprah - he's quite a kid.

Blogger Lauri said...
Glad your feeling ready to begin the adoption process- sounds like you have done your research and are ready. I lost My best friend to Pancreatic Cancer- Im sorry about your Grandma


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